In Pakistan, if you’re a wife seeking a divorce, there are a few paths you can take. Unlike a husband who can initiate divorce with talaq, you’ll need to go through the court system.

 

The most common option is called khula. In Khulla, you file a petition with the Family Court explaining why you want a divorce. This could be because your husband is cruel, neglectful, or hasn’t fulfilled his marital duties. The court will hear both sides of the story and might try to get you and your husband back together. If they agree there’s a good reason for divorce (khula), they’ll grant it and might even decide on things like financial settlements.

Another option is a mutual divorce. This is faster and simpler, but only works if both you and your husband agree to end the marriage. You’ll need a written agreement outlining any financial settlements or child custody arrangements, and then notify the Union Council. They might try to reconcile things, but if that doesn’t work, they’ll issue a divorce certificate after some time.

The final option is judicial divorce. This is through the court system again, but it’s the most complex and time-consuming. You can file a petition if your husband has been cruel, deserted you for more than four years, or hasn’t been able to fulfill his marital duties for three years. You’ll need evidence to support your claim, and the court will hold hearings with both of you. If they find your reasons valid, they’ll grant a divorce decree, which might also address child custody and finances.

No matter which option you choose, remember that a lawyer specializing in Pakistani family law can be a huge help. They can explain the legalities in simple terms, recommend the best approach for your situation, and make sure your rights are protected throughout the process.